51°f/10.5°C, supposed to be a very warm day.
The Hartley cabin, no longer occupied, was the old Simon's homeplace. Photo taken about 10 years ago.
The other night while I was trying to go to sleep, I got to thinking about the demographics of our road. I call "our road" the lasso-shaped loop the comprises Joe's Run from where it joins Mill Creek, to where the road splits into the left and right fork of Joe's Run, and then the 2-mile stretch of our ridge road (called Railey Ridge) that runs between where each fork ends on our ridge. The whole road as I have described it measures about 11 miles.
Forks of Joe's Run
So, on our road I counted 46 homes, with 92 occupants, or 2 people per house. This surprised me until I realized how many homes have single occupants---10 of them, at a rough count. Only one of these is a woman. Some have never married, others are divorced or widowed. There are less than 20 children. When my boys were young, there were at least 30 kids, 12 of them on this ridge.
All of the generation above me, except 2, have died. Homes and land rarely come up for sale here, as property is passed to children, and land is often split up, with new houses popping up and descendants moving in. Most of these new houses are modular construction.
There are still some farmers, not as many as there were, I think; farming here is very small scale, and all are cattle farms. Education levels are higher than the state average--there are 3 of us with Masters degrees, 3 are medical professionals, and there are three or 4 teachers, a veterinary technician. Two girls who were raised on our road but now live elsewhere are veterinarians. One man is an architect.
Many of the men are skilled workers--electricians, millwright, Larry was a bricklayer, and several are auto mechanics or body work specialists. One drives a school bus and has a side business in taxidermy. Five are self-employed with small businesses, one of which is a thriving auto body shop that employs a dozen people, mostly family members. One is a county tax assessor. About a dozen are retired; two are disabled, one of those a disabled vet.
In the 50 years I have lived here, I have seen the shift away from farms and especially away from home gardens. Only 7 of us have any kind of garden, and only 2 with gardens of any size at all. Very few put up food, although they may freeze beef or venison. Religion is still a big part of life for most, although attendance at the little church on this ridge is less than half of what it was. People prefer the bigger churches out on the highway.
I have also noticed a shift away from college education. At one time, there were 7 women on our road attending college. All were married and had families. Right now I can't think of a single person attending a school beyond high school. That could simply be due to the ages of our current residents, either too young or already established in a career or job.
Every person on our road is white, and as far as I know it has always been so. I think the only ones to join the military were 4 of my sons, although of course most of the men of my generation were drafted back when that was done. No women vets I know of. One man who moved here from elsewhere is a disabled vet, and another couple, also from elsewhere, are retired veterans. These families, and maybe a dozen other people, are the only ones not raised on this road.
I wonder how these demographics measure up against other communities. Are we average? I don't know, but it was interesting to think about during a sleepless night.
I much prefer your nighttime mental wanderings over my own. Last night's hour at 4:30 when I never can get back to sleep was such a waste, and fortunately I've forgotten it completely! I think I woke up at 8 something thinking that if people go to heaven, they've left their skeletons and flesh behind, so no, they aren't naked, they aren't bodies at all! Somehow I always wonder about the divorced and remarried people if they all are in one place following their demise. And of course if all the people who have ever lived are in that "one place or another" it sure must be more crowded than the cemeteries! You can tell I'm definitely a lapsed something or another. I tend to go with reincarnation.
ReplyDeleteOh my, Barb! What funny thoughts! I had to laugh about the potentially overcrowded conditions in the afterlife!
DeleteIt's amazing how much info you have about the people on "your road". I don't know much about my neighbors and live on a cul de sac in a subdivision.I have no idea how many people live in each home or their education levels or careers/jobs. A few are my friends but over the years that number has declined as more people sold and new people moved in...
ReplyDeleteWell, 50 years here, you do learn a thing or two but honestly, I think it is because people tend to stay put, put down roots and so are willing to get to know each other. There is a very strong sense of community here. And curiosity!
DeleteInteresting to read the changes your road has experienced.
ReplyDeleteYes. We used to know everyone quite well, but not as much any more, as most everyone is younger.
DeleteYou know so much about your community. We live in adjoined townhouses, and for the most part, we don’t know each other. There are some exceptions, but we aren’t very close to anyone. Sue was once close to a couple of neighbours, but they are gone, as in deceased, now.
ReplyDeleteI would not say we are really close with any of our neighbors except a few, AC, but we are a strong community and we all care about each other. I am a bit of a liner because I am not from West Virginia, I don't go to church, and I am "different"--storytellrr, writer, former hippie (not really, but how I am viewed). But I am well liked and respected, and that means a lot. I have little in common with most neighbors since I garden extensively, don't buy new stuff, etc, but still I am accepted and liked. We are a pretty tolerant lot here!
DeleteGosh all that going on in your head, no wonder you couldn't sleep. But rewarding to work it all out, who's who and what they've done. Were you happy with it all your thoughts afterwards about your road? Interesting and well educated people.
ReplyDeleteYes! Exactly, Chris---it was interesting to think it all through. And yes, all good people except the guy who isn't exactly part of the community as I mapped it. He lives off on a different road and we all know he is a thief. He knows we know too! So has behaved since a neighbor caught him red-handed.
Delete...I had a nursery supplier in the mountains of North Carolina. Once I said that I loved the old logs building in the area, he said golly Tom, I grew up in one and the snow blew in with the winter winds.
ReplyDeleteYep! Our log room is, um, well ventilayed!
DeleteYou do know a lot about your community. Around here we still have plenty of small churches, with more branching off all the time it seems. Not too many home gardens, though I still grow one. My coworkers used to think I was crazy for having one :)
ReplyDeleteThe churches here are always splitting too, which is sad because they lose strength each time. My coworkers thought the same of me, Michelle. Working in the city, I was definitely the odd woman out! Very little in common with anyone there.
DeleteI enjoyed hearing about your neighborhood and could imagine it well. Neighborhoods go through cycles. The younger ones grow up, the older ones die. And then it starts again with young families. I've see that in the neighborhoods I've lived in. When I can't sleep, I try to remember all the kids in various big families I have know. :)
ReplyDeleteBig families used to be commonplace, at least in our childhood, June. Not so much today. I can only remember a few of them, though. Closest to us in number were the Nelson's,who had 7, and I think the Smedley's had 6. Quite a few families had 4 children though. On this road, there was one family of 7, another with 9, one with 12 I think...probably others I am not recalling.
DeleteInteresting to hear about the families on your road. I went from being the newest family on the street to being one of the long term families. Older people left for various reasons, and younger people moved in. Now I live in a senior community.... I know a few people but not everyone. And my next door neighbour has been there for a whole year and I have only seen them to speak to a couple of times!
ReplyDeleteI think that the closer people's homes are, the less likely they are to get to know each other. Maybe that has to do with protecting personal space. Too much closeness can be overwhelming. Here, we are quite spread out, and everyone owns from an acre up to hundreds of acres, so plenty of room to breathe.
DeleteThis is interesting indeed! We are a party of 14 in this house and I only know 5. Not even those who live across the hall! High fluctuation, mostly students, I suppose.
ReplyDeleteWhen we moved in here 14 years ago we went from door to door and introduced ourselves. Seems to be out of fashion!...
My reply to Shammikite probably applies here too, Iris. Just too close to get close, lol!
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