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Sunday, June 28, 2026

Old Friends and Good Times

71°f/21.7°C. I think Europe's heatwave is coming here to visit this week! Rained all day yesterday and most of last night, finally beginning to clear.

What a great trip that was to Pocahontas County. It was such a pleasure to see so many old friends...and I do mean old. We are all getting up there! And it was surprising to see how much everyone had aged since I last saw them 3 or 4 years ago. Well, I have too, and I am sure they noticed my many new wrinkles and abundant gray hair! Ah, we were so young when I first came to Allegheny Echoes. All in our 50s and full of sass and vinegar, staying up til the sun came up, sipping on 'shine, singing and laughing and listening or playing music! 

Now the conversations are often about what joints have been replaced (used to be joints meant something entirely different to most of these folks!), what medications everyone is taking, where we hurt and why...and everyone is in bed before 2am. What changes time hath wrought.

Which is the reason I very much wanted to go. Time is passing quickly now and I don't want to miss chances to meet up with friends whenever I can. But did I take photos of everyone? Nope, completely forgot because I was too busy being in the moment. 

But I did take some videos of the fine, fine music. So here's a taste. First, the Bing Brothers Band. Mike on mandolin, Dave on guitar, Tim on banjo, with Jake Kracke on fiddle and Tim Corbett on bass. These guys will be inducted into the West Virginia Music Hall of Fame next April. The Bings, along with my writing mentor Kirk Judd, were the founders of Echoes.


The evening concert featured the teachers and visiting Masters in various instruments and creative writing. 


And then later, jams back at the Marlinton Motor Inn, where most of the teachers and students stay, and where many of the classes are held. Classes are also held in various locations in town, as the community really supports this event, and has for the 30 years it has been held. 


So I got my music fix, for now. It seems that as I get older I want to hear live music more and more often. That's a good thing, I think. 

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Friday, June 26, 2026

Home and Garden




62°f/17°C, threatening rain as I left this morning.
A few quick shot taken before I left home this morning.


The large gazing ball gives an idea of the size of this bloom!


Gardens are growing nicely.




The messy end of this flower bed.the chicken wide deters deer coming down from the woods, sneaky things. They have to go around, which means the dogs can see them.


The girls, back in their old coop, and seeing pretty content. But I think it is time for us to give up having chickens. I think.


All for now. I had my blood test that I was supposed to have back in October (all pretty good), went to the bank, filled up with gas, got my driver's license renewed, and then drove across state to Marlinton for a visit with friends and a fantastic concert this evening. Hopefully I will have more photos to share next time.


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Thursday, June 25, 2026

Rabbit Dinner, and the Elderly

62°f/about 17°C, mostly clear but clouding up now. Slight chance of showers later, and rain likely tonight 84°f right now.

I have been hearing about the heat wave in Europe, and it must be so difficult for people, considering that many places and homes do not have air conditioning.  I remember my last time in England, when it got over 80° when we were clear up at the Scottish border. No place we stayed had AC, and most had no fans. Pretty uncomfortable. Feeling for all of you affected!


I made dinner early today. I worked out in my gardens this morning, pulling up the spent Mexican primroses and yarrow, cutting back coreopsis, etc, and then checked the vegetable garden, where i found our first cucumber and yellow squash of this year, and more zucchini. They've just started and already we are overrun with zukes! I had thawed some of the rabbit we put up a couple weeks ago, so I browsed online for a recipe. I found this recipe, which was delicious.  A bit spicier than we like so next time I will cut back on the pepper and paprika.


I made roasted zucchini too, one of our favorite ways to fix it. It's so simple: I slice the zukes about 1/4" thick, mix salt, pepper, and avocado oil, and toss with the zucchini. Place on a preheated cookie sheet in a preheated 450° oven. Cook for about 6 minutes, flip over, top with parmesan cheese,  and broil for about 2 minutes. Should be nicely browned. Served up with red beans and rice, and sliced cucumber. 

Yesterday we met up with my friend Donna Wilson for breakfast. Donna lives west of Columbus,  Ohio,  but has family just across the Ohio River, so if she's in the area, or if we are near Columbus,  we try to get together. She used to live about 40 minutes away, and we did a lot of storytelling together. I miss her. At 83, she is going strong, thank goodness.

Here in West Virginia there have been 3 missing older people lately, which is very concerning. Two had Alzheimers or dementia, I forget which. One gentleman was found deceased, sadly; he had wrecked his car over a hill. Search parties are still looking for a 62 year old lady in the remote, mountainous region around Richwood,  and the third man was just reported missing in Braxton County, also a fairly rural, remote area. I feel so badly for these families. All three did their best to care for these elders, and are devastated at what has happened. With West Virginia having the oldest per capital population in the US, I expect we will see more and more of these Silver Alerts.

This happened to a friend of mine about 6 years ago. Her husband was in the beginning stages of Alzheimers,  as I recall. He walked out to get the mail one winter day, and didn't return. It was just a short distance to their mailbox, so how could he have disappeared? And yet, it was a few days before he was found. I don't recall the specifics of exactly what happened, if he had a stroke and got confused, or what, but my friend has dealt with the guilt and pain of feeling like she should have known something was wrong, should have looked sooner (and yet it was less than 30 minutes when she realized he hadn't come back in! She had been busy with housework). 

I wonder, how long would it be for someone to come looking for me? Larry would assume I had gone for a walk, probably, and wouldn't be concerned for a good while. If he wasn't home for a few days, I doubt anyone would think it odd not to hear from me. And often I don't hear my phone when someone calls, anyway, because I'm outside. 
With Larry, I am always on the watch for him because of his health issues. If I don't hear him doing stuff outside, I call for him. Just checking. But if I was away,  I doubt very much anyone would think to check on him. His phone is often lost or turned off, and he never calls anyone. I do call a couple times a day when I am away, but again, it is not unusual for him not to answer. Once I put it on Facebook for someone to check on him when he didnt answer for almost 2 days! Well, he'd lost his phone, again. He was amused that 2 or 3 people showed up that day, just to be sure he was still kickin'. Now we have a Life360 with our son Derek so he at least has some idea where the old folks are.

How about you? Do you have people that check in regularly? I think it's time we made a better plan ourselves.  Never thought about it until these recent Silver Alerts.


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