Monday, September 1, 2025
Hello September!
Wednesday, December 18, 2024
The Holly Bears a Berry
And Mary bore Jesus Christ our Saviour for to be,
And the first tree in the greenwood, it was the holly.
Holly! Holly!
And the first tree in the greenwood, it was the holly!
And Mary bore Jesus, who died on the cross:
And Mary bore Jesus, who died for us all:
Then trust we our Saviour, who rose from the dead.
Tuesday, August 8, 2023
Honeysuckle
The old name Woodbine
describes the twisting, binding nature of the honeysuckle through the
hedgerows of the Old World.
It was believed that
if honeysuckle grew around the entrance to the home it prevented a witch from
entering. In other places it's believed that grown around the doors it will
bring good luck. If it grows well in your garden, then you will be protected
from evil. In Ireland honeysuckle was believed to have a power against bad
spirits, and it was used in a drink to cure the effects of the evil eye.
Bringing the flowers
into the house will bring money with them.
Honeysuckle has long
been a symbol of fidelity and affection. Those who wear honeysuckle flowers are
said to be able to dream of their true love. Its clinging nature, in the book The Language of Flowers, symbolizes 'we are united in love,' and emphasizes the
bond of devotion and affection between two people. It was also believed that if
the blooms were brought into the house then a wedding would follow within a
year.
In the Victorian era
there was a ban on young girls bringing honeysuckle into the home because the
heady fragrance of the flowers was believed to cause dreams that were far too
risqué for their sensibilities.
The wood has been used to make walking sticks because of its nature to grow around and entwine saplings. Actually, I have never seen honeysuckle big enough for this, unless this is referring to the shrub?
The dried flowers are used for adding to pot-pourri, herb pillows and
floral waters. Also, scented cosmetics are made from the fresh flowers.
Thursday, May 26, 2022
The Bee's Knees
Friday, February 25, 2022
Trees: Folklore and Fables
At Beartown Rocks, West VirginiaAnd this one, located at Carn Euny in Cornwall, was at the site of a holy well, and hung with clouties--strips of ribbon or string, tied to the tree by someone with a special wish or prayer. Yes, we tied on a piece of string too.
Wednesday, November 17, 2021
Ahhhh--Chooo! What Does a Sneeze Mean?
- it will bring a windfall of money,
- In ancient Greece, sneezing was believed to be a sign of prophecies from the gods.
- Sneezing in the evening, but before midnight, is a sign of a pending invitation.
- In Scotland, a child who sneezes will escape the clutches of the fairies.
- Some say that three sneezes in a row means someone loves you.
Thursday, December 31, 2020
Covid Journal, Day 287: Getting Ready for New Year's Day

In 2008 I posted a blog about New Year's traditions, and in 2011 I recorded an interview for WV Public Radio on the topic. Here are some new ones I've found, along with the essay and my original post at the bottom for those of you who might have forgotten all the technicalities that supposedly ensure luck, health, happiness and wealth in the coming year.
Calendar: Take a calender for the new year, then close your eyes (or use a blindfold if it's a party) and turn the pages of the calendar at random and put your finger on a date. On that date, something good will happen to you. You will be able to look forward to this "lucky day" all year.
First-footer: always make sure it is a man who enters your home first on New Year's Day. Some traditions hold that it should be a light-haired man. (I'm in luck there, with Larry's white head!) Others insist on a light-haired man, so I guess it's all good either way.
Parsley: a leaf of parsley on the bottom shelf of your fridge on New Year's Day will make it certain that you will never be without money in the coming year. No wonder I've always been broke. Who knew?
And yet more. This could be a busy day, just getting ready for midnight.

- Other things I do to ensure a good year:
- Listen up! The first words I hear after the year changes might carry portents for the rest of the year.
- Do things I enjoy on New Year's Day. This often includes touching base with my family and planning the garden with seed catalogs in hand.
- We used to have to work every New Year's Eve and New Year's day. Now it's important to me to be home because it seems to impact how the rest of my year will go. Superstitious? Yeah!
- Spend no money. An old superstition says that nothing should go out, not even dust or the trash. I don't know about that, but not spending on New Year's is another of those precedent-setting things for the coming year.
- There are conflicting world opinions about sweeping on New Year's. Some say you will sweep out your luck, others sweep out the old year's dust. So I sweep if it's needed!
- My mother always said that if you cried on New Year's, you'd cry all year. True? I don't know, but I try not to cry ;-)
We always eat cabbage (with wrapped coins mixed in--I think this was a way to get kids to eat cabbage, one of the few vegetables available in winter in the old days, but probably not a favorite with kids then either! My sons were always on the hunt for rthe coins, but the deal was they had to eat all their cabbage to keep the coins. Quarters were the favorite, of course.), The cabbage can be coleslaw, of course, although somehow that seems like cheating.
Black-eyed peas are on the menu, too--my version mixes the peas with Ro-Tell Tomatoes and onions--spicy and good. And ham--yumm!
So share! What are your plans? What will you cook? What will you do or not do to celebrate and to guarantee your good luck?
For more ideas about food and celebration, try these websites:
New Year's Day traditions and superstitions
A list of 13 New Year's superstitions--an unlucky number for luck?
Food Network's gallery of recipes
How to make Hoppin' John to spice up those black-eyed peas (but I like my version best!)
And lastly:

Monday, October 12, 2020
Covid Journal, Day 204: Pears--Folklore, Stories and More


He lined a basket with fresh leaves, laid the pears on them and sent his oldest son to offer them to the king.
"Do not eat any of the pears, mind," the farmer said. "These are for the King alone.And don't let anyone rob you on the way."
The boy answered: "I know how to take care of what I have."
The farmer covered the top of the basket with fresh leaves and the oldest son set off.
It was autumn, and the sun was still quite warm. When he came at last to a roadside fountain, he sat down to drink and rest.
A bent, wrinkled old woman was washing some rags at the same fountain and singing out of tune.
"A fair day, my lad!" said the little old wife; "but you have to carry a heavy burden. What are you carrying?"
"Only a load of sweepings off the road," answered the boy.
"Road-sweepings?" repeated the woman. "Well, if you mean it, no doubt it is so," and she went on washing and singing out of tune.
The boy soon continued on his way to the castle, where the King welcomed him at once.
"You have brought me some of your father's pears, my boy?" asked the King as he licked his lips.
"Yes, sire, I have them in this basket."
The King was delighted to hear this, but what do you think? Under the leaves was nothing but sweepings off the road! The poor oldest son was thrown into jail for disappointing the King, and lying on top of it.
The first and second day in jail the boy blamed the old wife, but as he thought more closely, he saw he had brought it on himself by lying to her.
A year later, the farmer said to his other two sons, "Your elder brother has perhaps pleased the King so much that he has got a great office near him and has become a rich man."
The second brother said, "May I give the King a basket of pears too? If the King makes me rich, I will send for you and make you rich too."
"Well said, son," answered the father; "for I have worked hard for you all my life and it is fit that in my old age you should share your wealth with me."
As the season for pears had just come round again, the second son made another basket, lined it with fresh leaves and laid several beautiful pears in it.
The following day, he walked a long way carrying the pears. But the sun was as hot as it had been last year. When he came to the fountain by the wayside on the third day, he was glad to sit down to rest and refresh himself.
Who do you think was at the fountain? Why, the same old doubled-up woman. She stood washing her rags at the fountain and singing out of tune. When she saw the boy with his basket, she said, "I see you carry a heavy burden. What are you carrying?"
"A load of sweepings off the road," answered the boy, for he and his elder brother had come up with that answer together last year, when they were considering how to keep from being robbed.
"Road-sweepings?" repeated the woman. "Well, if you mean it, no doubt it is so." And she went on washing and singing out of tune.
The boy went on to the King's castle. When he brought his basket to the King it was once again filled with street-sweepings, not his father's luscious pears. The King's guard hurried him off to jail for offending the king like that, and put him in the next cell to his brother.
Another year passed. The father got very uneasy. The third son was thought to be a dull boy and had often been laughed at by the others for it.
"If I dared trust you, I would gladly send you to see what has happened to your brothers," said his father.
"I can go, Father," he said. "I'll find my brothers, I promise."
"Do you really think you can keep yourself out of harm's way?" said his father. "Well, I will not let you go empty-handed." The pears were just ripe again, so he laid the choicest of the year's stock in another basket and sent him on his way.
The boy walked along. All went smoothly, except that he got rather scorched by the sun. So when he reached the fountain by the wayside, he was glad to sit down to rest and refresh himself.
The old wife was washing her rags in the water and singing out of tune. "Here comes a third boy with a basket of pears - as if I didn't know the scent of ripe golden pears from road-sweepings!"
"Good morning, little mother!" said the boy, in his countryman way, before he sat down.
"He is better mannered than the other two," thought the wife as she stopped singing to return his greeting.
"And what are you carrying, my boy?" she went on. "It ought to be a precious burden to be worth carrying so far as you seem to have come. What is in your basket?"
"I carry golden pears and my father often says there are no finer grown in the whole kingdom. I am taking them to the King because he is very fond of them."
"Only ripe pears and yet so heavy?" wondered the old wife.
The boy assured her they were nothing but pears and went on his journey after the rest.
When the servants saw another peasant boy from Bürs come to the palace with the story that he had pears for the King, they said, "No, no! We have had enough of that! Go back!"
But the boy was so disappointed at the idea of not doing as his father had asked him to, that he sank down on the door-step and sobbed bitterly. There he remained sobbing till the king came out.
The king had his daughter with him. When she saw the boy sobbing, she asked what was the matter, and learnt it was another boy from Bürs who had come to insult the King with a basket of road-sweepings. The guards asked if they should take him off to prison at once.
The boy sobbed: "My father says there are no finer pears in the whole kingdom."
"Yes, yes, that is exactly what the others said!" answered the servants, and made ready to drag him away.
"But won't you look at my pears first, lady? I have brought them all this way for the King. My father will be so sad if I do not give them to him!"
He seemed so earnest that the princess wanted to see what was in his basket. She removed the covering of leaves and discovered that what he had brought were golden pears - each was of solid shining metal! "Let us show these to my father," she said.
The King was pleased to see his favourite fruit in gold, and said to the boy, "Whatever you ask shall be given."
"All I want is to find my two brothers, who may hold some great office at court," said the boy.
"Your brothers are in jail if they are the ones I suspect," said the King and commanded that they should be brought. The boys at once ran to embrace each other, and the King made them each recount all their adventures.
"You see how dangerous it is to depart from the truth!" the King said to the two eldest when they had done. "You might have remained in prison to the end of your days but for your straightforward brother that you thought was less than yourselves."
Then he ordered that the tree that brought forth golden, but eatable pears should be transplanted to his palace, and made the father and his three sons places among his gardeners. And so they lived in plenty and were well content.
Here is yet one more pear story, and I rather like this one. Aunty Misery, below, is believed to be from Puerto Rico. The story of Soldier Jack, also known as The Man Who Caught Death in a Sack, has a similar theme--it is told as an Appalachian tale, but probably has roots in England. The folklorist Arthur Ransome has a version from Russia, and I am sure there are many others. It is also very like Godfather Death, from The Brothers Grimm. I do love the way stories, or parts of them travel from culture to culture. I found this story on several sites online.
Aunty Misery
She spent all her time taking care of her pear tree. But the neighborhood children drove the old woman crazy by stealing her fruit. They would climb her tree, shake its delicate limbs, and run away with armloads of golden pears, yelling insults at “Aunty Misery,” as they called her.
One day, a pilgrim stopped at the old woman’s hut and asked her permission to spend the night under her roof. Aunty Misery saw that he had an honest face and bade the traveler come in. She fed him and made a bed for him in front of her hearth.
In the morning while he was getting ready to leave, the stranger told her that he would show his gratitude for her hospitality by granting her one wish.
“There is only one thing that I desire,” said Aunty Misery.
“Ask, and it shall be yours,” replied the stranger, who was a sorcerer in disguise.
“I wish that anyone who climbs up my pear tree should not be able to come back down until I permit it.”
“Your wish is granted,” said the stranger, touching the pear tree as he left Aunty Misery’s house.
And so it happened that when the children came back to taunt the old woman and to steal her fruit, she stood at her window watching them. Several of them shimmied up the trunk of the pear tree and immediately got stuck to it as if with glue. She let them cry and beg her for a long time before she gave the tree permission to let them go, on the condition that they never again steal her fruit or bother her.
Time passed and both Aunty Misery and her tree grew bent and gnarled with age. One day another traveler stopped at her door. This one looked exhausted, so the old woman asked him what he wanted in her village.
He answered her in a voice that was dry and hoarse, as if he had swallowed a desert: “I am Death, and I have come to take you with me.”
Thinking fast, Aunty Misery said, “All right, but before I go I would like to pluck some pears from my beloved pear tree to remember how much pleasure it brought me in this life. But I am a very old woman and cannot climb to the tallest branches where the best fruit is; will you be so kind as to do it for me?”
With a heavy sigh like wind through a catacomb, Death climbed the pear tree. Immediately he became stuck to it as if with glue. And no matter how much he cursed and threatened, Aunty Misery would not give the tree permission to release Death.
Many years passed and there were no deaths in the world. The people who made their living from death began to protest loudly. The doctors claimed no one bothered to come in for examinations or treatments anymore, because they did not fear dying; the pharmacists’ business suffered too because medicines are, like magic potions, bought to prevent or postpone the inevitable; the priests and undertakers were unhappy with the situation also, for obvious reasons. There were also many old folks tired of life who wanted to pass on to the next world to rest from the miseries of this one.
Aunty Misery realized all this, and not wishing to be unfair, she made a deal with her prisoner, Death: if he promised not ever to come for her again, she would give him his freedom. He agreed.
And that is why so long as the world is the world, Aunty Misery will always live.
Closing this very long post with this poem by Ruth Stone:





