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Thursday, December 26, 2024

Boxing Day or St. Stephen's Day?

Forgot to check the morning temperature,  but today warmed up to 56°f, or 13°C. Nice day, lots of sunshine. Rain expected to move in overnight.

Did you celebrate Boxing Day in any way? My mother always said it was a day for visiting and taking boxes of cookies to neighbors. I don't remember us boxing up and delivering cookies anywhere though, but I do think we went visiting sometimes, before there were so many of us children. Taking 13 kids visiting, can you imagine?  Historians say that it was the day that the wealthy gave gifts to tradesmen and servants, and sometimes boxed up leftover food from their Christmas feasts to give to the poor and their servants. 

Then there were St. Stephen's Day customs in the UK, one of which was "hunting the wren". According to some sources,  a wren supposedly betrayed the hiding place of Stephen to his pursuers. Today no one actually hunts the poor bird, thank goodness, although a fake wren may be paraded about on top of a pole.  I actually really like this song about the custom, called "Wren in the Furze".

Along this line, I do have a "bird tree". Somehow over the years I ended up with enough bird ornaments to decorate a small tree.




Below the bird tree is where I put the creche this year. Somehow we have managed to misplace the stable, so the poor folks are out in the cold. At least Baby Jesus arrived on time; last year i couldn't find him until several days after Christmas. My mother would always March the Wise Men around the living room until January 6th, when they would finally arrive at the stable. I used to do that too, when my boys were little. (Once I caught my youngest son using the manger scene pieces as action figures, waging a mighty battle. I never did find out who the bad guys were in that war.)


My mother had a real heavenly host of over 100 angels in her creche, and Dad built a special corner shelf to hold it all. In May it became the May altar, with a statue of Mary and fresh flowers all month. My creche seems to be a combination of a couple different sets of figures although I don't recall doing that. I like it though.

But I digress. Back to Boxing Day: these days, people hustle to the stores for the after-Christmas sales. I used to do that when my boys were young and money was so tight. I would stock up on wrapping paper, ribbon, lights, etc. Some friends even waited until after Christmas to do their shopping, then would have gift exchanges on New Year's Day or Old Christmas. They saved a lot of money that way, and avoided the pre-Christmas frenzy.

I admit to doing none of the above today. I stayed home while Larry went out to deliver a load of firewood (trading for some work on his truck). I took care of some ebay business and just enjoyed the nice weather and quiet. 

Tomorrow Little Boy will go to the vet to be neutered, poor little guy. I will stay home while Larry takes him in, as it really doesn't need us both to go. My oldest son and his wife and daughter are coming Saturday, so I will get ready for their visit. And maybe I will have a little time to read the book I started two weeks ago. Maybe?

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14 comments:

  1. Our tradition includes two days of Christmas. The 25th was the big turkey feast; the 26th was a day to get together and play games etc.. with everyone bringing finger food. We had just such a day today and I'm quite exhausted. But everyone had fun and I loved to see the hugging and wishing Happy New Year to each other as they left. Tomorrow we'll go back to a semblance of normality :)

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    1. I like that, GM. It would ne nice to extend the holiday into a day of slowdown activities.

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  2. I have lots of bird ornaments too, but nothing like your collection. To have enough birds to fill a whole tree is amazing to me. We had a beautiful creche, a large one, the figures 9 inches tall and beautifully decorated. It took up so much space that I gave it to my daughter. I never thought about it, but she didn't set it up this year either.

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    1. Well, it's a very small tree, Debby, about 3', but it's very full.
      I have seen large sets like yours, some very beautiful. Mine is vintage, made in Italy but plastic.

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  3. "Boxing Day" started in the 1830s with servants taking a box of presents home...if they lived near enough..and the commercial Christmas as we know it here was started by the Victorians in the 1840s...Dickens published A Christmas Carol in 1843...

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    1. I have heard that too, gz...that servants were allowed to box up leftovers to take home. A bit different than the idea if wealthy taking things to them, and more realistic. I just watched The Man Who Invented Christmas again the other day. Dickens certainly influenced the way people saw the holiday. In America, many people routinely went to work on Christmas day until 1870 when it was made a national holiday. Indeed, In the late 1600s Boston officially banned celebrations of Christmas for a while! The Puritans, you know. They didn't like fun of any kind, poor souls.

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  4. OK -- don't laugh but a couple of posts ago you mentioned Little Boy and since I haven't followed you for very long and you mentioned your husband was out walking with Buddy and Little Boy, I thought that he must be a little grand who was visiting for the holiday. So hearing he was about to be neutered was a bit of a shock till I put the pieces together! Great name!

    I did a tiny (and I mean tiny) bit of belated Christmas shopping yesterday and then just crashed. I hope I can get some mojo today. I told people they would be lucky to get their gifts (by mail) before Twelfth Night (which worked for the Magi) but at the rate I'm going it might be later! The crashing was sorely needed! I hope your knee held up well with all the merriment of the season and well done taking the day off!

    I love hearing about your creche and the bird tree is simply charming!

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  5. I was not familair with the wren customs and really enjoyed the Chiefton's wren song. Thanks for sharing.

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    1. I think you would enjoy that whole CD, June. I have worn out a few copies over the years, because I play it and Jennifer Cutting's Song of Solstice so much in December.

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  6. That bird tree is FUN!! The second Christmas Day is still a holiday here, but I don't think it's celebrated differently. Have a good time with your son's family, Sue.

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  7. Love the bird tree. I used to have a couple of manger scenes, but pieces seemed to disappear into maybe throwing out used wrapping paper. Your mother's manger with 100 angels sounds pretty amazing. No shopping here, and with a library book on audio and a newly gifted book which I really wanted, guess which one I indulged in yesterday? Yep, the audio, because I could carry the iPad with me around the house, cooking, eating dinner. A total addict me. I'm looking forward to Louise Penny's book when this one is finished. Now today I get to go out and be social with a munching lunch of left overs at a friends, and then coffee and chat with two other friends!

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    1. It is so good to see you feeling well and going out, Barb!

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