Wednesday, December 31, 2008
Waiting
Tuesday, December 30, 2008
How Will You Celebrate the New Year?

Do you observe certain traditions and customs?
Do you have New Year's superstitions?
Do you prepare special foods for luck and health?
Or do you just go to bed at your usual time?
As you might know from a previous post, we build a New Year's bonfire in which we burn all the things that are worrying us and those who send their troubles to us to burn.
We stay up late, share music and stories, have lots of food on hand. (You can read all about last year's celebration here.) The kids beat pots and pans to celebrate, the adults sip champagne, and we wake up the quiet night of the ridge with our noise. Far away we can usually hear fireworks and guns going off as neighbors on distant hills celebrate in their own ways.
- I watch for the first-footer too, trying to make sure it's a dark-haired man who leaves through a different door than the one through which he entered. In Scotland, this first-footer should carry in a small lump of coal for the fire--at my house, a log for the wood stove might be more appropriate! (Last year I wrote this post about five ways to celebrate.)
Other things I do to ensure a good year:
Listen up! The first words I hear after the year changes might carry portents for the rest of the year. - Do things I enjoy on New Year's Day. This often includes touching base with my family and planning the garden with seed catalogs in hand.
- We used to have to work every New Year's Eve and New Year's day. Now it's important to me to be home because it seems to impact how the rest of my year will go. Superstitious? Yeah!
- Spend no money. An old superstition says that nothing should go out, not even dust or the trash. I don't know about that, but not spending on New Year's is another of those precedent-setting things for the coming year.
- There are conflicting world opinions about sweeping on New Year's. Some say you will sweep out your luck, others sweep out the old year's dust. So I sweep if it's needed!
- My mother always said that if you cried on New Year's, you'd cry all year. true? I don't know, but I try not to cry ;-)
As for food:
We always eat cabbage (with wrapped coins mixed in--I think this was a way to get kids to eat cabbage, one of the few vegetables available in winter in the old days, but probably not a favorite with kids then either! My sons were always on the hunt for rthe coins, but the deal was they had to eat all their cabbage to keep the coins. Quarters were the favorite, of course.), The cabbage can be coleslaw, of course, although somehow that seems like cheating.
Black-eyed peas are on the menu, too--my version mixes the peas with Ro-Tell Tomatoes and onions--spicy and good. And ham--yumm!
So share! What are your plans? What will you cook? What will you do or not do to celebrate and to guarantee your good luck?
For more ideas for food and celebration, try these websites:
New Year's Day traditions and superstitions
Parties all over the country!
Food Network's gallery of recipes
Recipes, crafts and recipes abound on this site
How to make Hoppin' John to spice up those black-eyed peas (but I like my version best!)
Monday, December 29, 2008
Breaking Up Christmas
Apparently the tradition was common to the mountains of Virginia and North Carolina; if it ever existed where I lived, it was long gone by the time I to moved to the mountains of West Virginia. According to the Bluegrass Messenger's website, the tradition died out in North Carolina during World War II, but enjoyed a resurgence in the 1970's when attention focused once again on the oldtime traditions.
In a 2001 article for Voice of America, one man explained it this way: "We didn't have electricity," he said. "We didn't have TV. And they'd do all this stuff at Christmas to entertain theirselves, that's the way they had, in place of watching football on TV or a parade in New York they'd all get together and have their own playing around the country."
A banjo tune called "Breakin' up Christmas" tells it this way:
Hooray Jake and Hooray John,
Breakin' up Christmas all night long.
Way back yonder a long time ago
The old folks danced the do-si-do.
Way down yonder alongside the creek
I seen Santy Claus washin' his feet.
Santa Claus come, done and gone,
Breakin' up Christmas right along.
(Lyrics from Songs of the Mountains)
And if you want to hear the tune, where better than YouTube to see old tradition in new technology? This young man can play..and sing!
Thank you, Tipper, for the brain nudge. It was interesting to look a little deeper into the tradition. If you'd like to see photos and learn more about the tradition, be sure to visit Tipper's blog.
Oh, you might learn a different way to celebrate New Year's while you're visiting Tipper!
Sunday, December 28, 2008
Time for the New Year's Bonfire and Burning Our Troubles
The first year we did this, we invited family and storyteller friends to email their troubles to us to burn, and many did just that. This is the 9th annual bonfire I believe, and once again I invite my friends and family to send troubles for the fire. If you prefer to keep your troubles private, send a simple "Burn This" message and it will go into the flames along with our best thoughts and prayers for you.
Last year we burned nearly 200 troubles; this year it looks like we've all got a lot more to burn! So please send them to me at susannaholstein@yahoo.com and we'll be sure yours get into the hottest part of the fire.
Please feel free to forward this message to your friends and family--we'd be happy to burn their troubles too!
Let's make merry, one and all, and look forward to a new year of hope and happiness!
Saturday, December 27, 2008
On the Road Again
The real reason, besides an opportunity for us to be together and exchange gifts is that their grandmother, my former mother-in-law, will be visiting from Florida. Every couple of years my oldest son flies her up for a visit.
Winter is a tricky time for traveling but it looks like it will be a perfect day.
I'll be back on Sunday, with, I hope, some pics to share of the journey.
See you then!
Friday, December 26, 2008
Happiness is a Red Toaster
Christmas Evening Sunset
Thursday, December 25, 2008
Merry Christmas!
For me fruit is a big part of the holidays--tangerines and navel oranges especially.
Otis and Jeb want in! These good boys were in the house all night and never bothered the cookies and pies on the table. Good dogs--or do they just know that if they touched anything they'd never be allowed in the house again?
I made this wall-hanging in 1977 from fabric scraps. The little tree is stuffed with pantyhose because I didn't have anything else on hand to use.
I don't have any photos of gift-opening or dinner at Derek's because I was kind of busy! I've noticed that to be a good photographer, you must be disengaged from whatever is going on--it's difficult to be part of it and also taking the pictures to record it. Take it from me, we had a great time! My gifts from my husband? A BIG cast iron skillet and a roll of duct tape. Don't laugh! I've been craving a bigger skillet, and had looked at this one but not bought it. And duct tape? I always keep a roll in my car, but had not yet bought one for this car. Any woman reader who lives in the country knows the value of both of these gifts! Not cute and sexy, but great choices for a woman who doesn't want cute and sexy things.
Wednesday, December 24, 2008
Christmas All Around the House
Tuesday, December 23, 2008
Good Will to All
The man picked up some antique dishes, marked "made in Occupied Japan." He often stopped at Goodwill to check out new arrivals and frequently made some good finds. As he moved to the register with his purchases, he noticed that the other shopper had already finished making her selections and was waiting to check out.
As the two customers waited for a clerk, they talked about a doll in the woman's cart. The doll was wearing a hand-crocheted dress. "It's for my granddaughter," she said. "I can't do such handiwork although I love to sew." Her wrinkled hands shook slightly as she placed the doll, a sparkly snowflake ornament, a toy truck and a few other items on the counter in front of her.
The clerk arrived and rang up the items. The woman dug in her purse and pulled out a gift certificate. "Can I use this?"
"Sure," the clerk answered. "It comes to $3.71. You'll still have some money left on your certificate. I'll get the manager; she needs to take care of it for you."
When the manager arrived, the elderly woman asked, "How much is that little Christmas tree in back? I couldn't find a price on it."
"Can you show me which tree you want?" the clerk asked. The two women walked to the back of the store.
The manager smiled at the waiting customer. "I can check you out over here." She pointed to the other register.
"No," the man replied. "Ring me up here. Leave her items on my bill."
"Are you sure?" asked the manager. "She has a gift certificate."
"She can use it later, can't she?"
"Well, sure."
"Okay then. Ring it up quick so I can be out of here before she comes back. And add $5 for the tree, that ought to be enough."
"Sure, if that's what you want." The manager grinned and quickly rang up the items. The man picked up his purchases and left.
As the door closed behind him, the clerk and the customer returned to the counter with the little tree.
"How much for the tree?" the clerk asked the manager. "We couldn't find a price."
"It's free," the manager replied. "The man who just left paid for it."
The old woman stared. "He paid for it?"
"Yes, and all your other things too."
The old woman looked at the toys and decorations on the counter. "Who...who was he?"
"I don't know, but I have a feeling it was Santa Claus," the manager replied.
Monday, December 22, 2008
The Coming of Winter and Yule
Solstice is past, and winter is here. He came in with cold snowy breath and icy winds that kept us mostly indoors during the shortest day of the year. It was a good day to be inside: the fires were burning brightly while I finished the Christmas cleaning and decorating.
e New Year's bonfire, carefully piling brush and logs into a giant pile that will burn brightly to light in the year. Although tradition in many places has a bonfire being lit and maintained through Solstice night, we do ours at New Years and it's become a special and central part of our holidays. Welcome be thou, heavenly King,
Welcome be ye Stephen and John,
Welcome be ye, good New Year,
Welcome be ye that are here,
Sunday, December 21, 2008
Who Will Be Home for Christmas?
I get asked this question frequently at this time of year. With five sons, twelve siblings and a slew of grandchildren, I suppose it's natural for people to assume that we will have a houseful for the holidays.
But the truth is, we often spend the day with only one or two sons, rarely more than that. The reason is: life. Some of my sons work shift work; another owns his own business which means the business owns him. Two sons and all my siblings live on the other side of the Eastern Continental Divide, which means that snow and bad weather play havoc with travel plans. It is often just not a good idea to plan a trip over the mountains in December or January.
Another reason why we don't have a houseful of visitors is that I have told my sons that they don't need to come. They have young children; kids like to be home on Christmas to enjoy their presents and celebrations at home. I remember so well how we used to have to take our sons away from their presents to travel to either my parent's or my in-laws' homes. The boys usually were wired up about their toys, and quite often their disappointment at having to leave home for the day was acted out in bad behavior. Which meant I was stressed and not having fun either because I had to ride herd on my herd.
I'm also aware that my daughters-in-law have obligations to their families too. Trying to make everyone happy can often end up making everyone stressed. I prefer that everyone enjoy their day and visit when they can. It works for me and I think it works for my sons too.
Last Christmas morning, Larry and I were alone. It was the first time ever that we'd been alone on Christmas. Derek was in Iraq, Tommy was in Germany, Aaoron was working, and these are the three who are usually closest to home and most likely to be here. We slept in, made coffee and a good breakfast, and lingered over opening our gifts. We called sons and family, and had a leisurely start to the day. It was just us, and it was just good. Each day is what we make it, isn't it?
This year it looks like it will be Larry, Tommy and me in the morning. I'm looking forward to another quiet and leisurely morning with good food and time to take things slow. We'll enjoy the time with Tommy. Then we'll be off to Derek's to cook dinner and celebrate with his family in the afternoon and evening.
And once again, it will be a good day.
Book Review: Appalachian Christmas Stories

Saturday, December 20, 2008
Note to President-Elect Obama
understanding of the past
Bring us
hope for the present
Bring us
belief in the future
Bring us
peace for always
Bring us
together at last
Thursday, December 18, 2008
Building the Log Cabin Room
Unfortunately the owner came in and threw much of the contents outside and burned them. A real pity because there were many blue canning jars, old books, letters, etc in the cabin before he "cleaned" it. We told him not to worry about the rest, we'd do it. So we were able to salvage about 30 blue jars, several other types, a few old letters, cards, etc. I will post photos of some of the items we saved in a future blog.
December 26, 2002: Here is the way the cabin looked when we bought it. Some of my sons would not even get out of the car to look at it when we first purchased it--the ground around it was poorly drained because someone had added a pond nearby and had not down the grading properly, so the ground was muddy, something smelled rank and trash was strewn everywhere.
As you can see, the foundation stones were giving way and the roof was nearly gone so the cabin would not have stood much longer.


January 5th, 2003: I didn't get pictures of removing the roof as I wasn't there on that day. Here you can see how the logs were lowered. We tied ropes to the ends and on the other side of the wall are two people desperately clinging to the ropes as they gently lower the log down the ladder. Primitive, but it worked. The logs are mostly oak, with some chestnut, poplar and a few pine. They are 8" thick, and the ones on this side of the cabin were 19 feet long.





January 20th: a few of the work crew that helped carry the logs and get them moved: from left, me, Steve Baldwin, Tommy, Timmy Crook, and Derek ,along with our beloved old dog Pup.
July 2003: I don't have too many photos of the rebuilding process because Larry and Tommy worked on it during the day while I was at work, and I just didn't think to take photos. Larry laid the block foundation in May, then we saved money until July for the floor joists and sub floor. We used 2x12 joists spaced 12" apart to make the floor extra strong for the slate we planned to use on it. Larry used a block-and-tackle pulley rig that looked for all the world like a gallows to lift the logs into place. He did many of them alone or with Tommy's help.


Our son Aaron helped with this part too. Actually, all our sons helped at some stage of the building process--a real family affair in the end.
Cost: the total, including the fireplace, foundation (it's about 8 feet high in front, I think, so it took a lot of block and mortar), framing, insulation for the floor and roof, and inside finishing : $5000. We also had to build a new deck, and it's a lot bigger than the old deck. So that was an additional $1500.
Wednesday, December 17, 2008
Lost
I wore them to the family reunion in May and once again several people commented on their shape and color. I really loved the way the earrings felt, the soft silver occasionally rubbing against the side of my neck. They just felt good, you know?